Ten or so years ago, I read a request in the Women’s International Writer’s Guild newsletter. A small 3 line or so request, which I am updating to the present day (Mother’s Day 2012). Readers, further into my posts, you will find entries of T.C. Paulinkonis, her mom, Barbara, and life at Chowchilla Prison, a too hot in the summer and too cold in the winter prison, where T.C. sends, and I receive, or I send, and she receives mail. She has been in prison for 22 years. Her mother may soon be released, due to age and infirmity and go to a halfway house. You will have to decide whether you want to be a penpal or not. I did, and I’ve never regretted it. First her current plea: “Imprisoned woman seeks pen pals and contact with the outside world. Please send SASE w/1st letter to: Teresa Paulinkonis (W45118); P. O. Box 514-16-4U); Chowchilla, CA 93610.” She needs mail. Contact with the outside world keeps these women alive. She and her mother were battered women. T.C. was also sexually abused repeatedly by her stepfather, and one day she retaliated. They didn’t get arrested under the “Battered Women” concept. They have been exceptional prisoners for 22 years. She started a newsletter. My relationship with her is one of mutual respect and love. I didn’t ask her for quite a while what the nature of her conviction was. It came out gradually. Her mother is ill, has botched eyesight because of a procedure within the walls, and I believe has fibromyalgia, and a host of other ills, such as diabetes. Barbara Paulinkonis is coming up for her parole board hearing in August and may be released. TC has an attorney (a volunteer firm) who is working on her release also. TC and her mom are in the same cell, and now Barbara can’t even make her bed, so TC takes on all extra work. She is an incredible daughter, and never complains. Her mother and TC are very loving and appreciative. You must send any request to her exactly as stated. I have sent envelopes which were the wrong shape, or sent too many stamps, and not known cardboard cards are not accepted, and each time, TC or any prisoner, for that matter, must pay for the whole package being returned and they make about 12 cents and hour. There is a lot I can say. It’s an entirely safe procedure. Let me know if you take action. When I am very old, and I lay down my bones, I’m sure there’s lots I could have done. but writing to TC has been a mutual blessing, and I hope I have served her in some small way. Love and Happy Mother’s Day to all, and just Happy Day to all who love and serve.